fasts and vrats
What is Hartalika Teej vrat and who observes it?
What the vrat is
Hartalika Teej is a nirjala fast, meaning no food or water from sunrise to sunset. It is observed on Bhadrapada shukla Tritiya, the third day of the bright half of the month of Bhadrapada. The word Hartalika comes from 'harat' (to steal) and 'alika' (girlfriend), and refers to a story where a friend steals a bride away. Married women fast for their husband's long life and good health. Unmarried women fast with the hope of finding a good husband. Some women also fast for the wellbeing of their families.
The story behind it
The vrat is linked to the story of Parvati and Shiva in the Skanda Purana. According to the story, Parvati fasted and performed tapasya, or spiritual practice, to win Shiva as her husband. The narrative teaches that devotion and discipline can bring what the heart seeks. This is why the fast carries the meaning it does for women seeking marriage or a long marriage.
How it is observed
Women bathe early and dress in new or clean clothes. Many make small idols of Parvati and Shiva out of sand or clay, sometimes with Ganesha. These are worshipped during the day. In the evening, after the fast is broken, the idols are often taken to a river or water body and immersed. Women may gather together to sing songs, tell stories, and share the meal that breaks the fast. The fast is broken with simple food, often fruit, milk, or a light meal.
Today
Hartalika Teej is observed widely in North and Central India, and among Hindu communities worldwide. Some women keep the full nirjala fast, while others eat fruit or milk during the day. The practice varies by family, region, and personal choice. For many, it remains a day to think about marriage, family, and the bonds that tie people together. Others see it as a day of spiritual practice and discipline. In cities and abroad, women sometimes gather in groups to observe it together, keeping the tradition alive even far from home.